A. Healthy sacrifice is always a good idea. If being a people person was ranked on a scale of 1-100%, I will rank 20%. I am introverted and this plays out in diverse ways but the most common indicator is I can go a really long stretch of time without socializing with people. I love my…

“A therapist said if you self isolate when overwhelmed, you probably had to solve a lot of your problems alone as a child.” ~ Bri Hall (Twitter) Many adults I know arrived at adulthood with nothing. We literally had to raise ourselves, break free from the trauma of being raised by parents who were also…

I saw a post by theindemandva recently that highlighted the theme of celebrating others not necessarily because they have accomplished things society has conditioned us to applaud. ”Normalize celebrating other things other than marriages and babies. Some of us are: paying off debt, starting businesses, moving out of our home towns to big cities, mending…

I was on a lesbian’s social media page this morning. Jumoke Randle’s biological sister called out her ex for abusing her while they were in a relationship, making videos based on that abusive relationship and painting her in a bad light while narrating her version of events. This call-out led to a social media uproar….

BO and I recently had a conversation on the things we learned in our first year of marriage. These 8 lessons (in no specific order) stood out for us: Marriage is not the use of another human being. Marriage is two whole people coming together for the furtherance of a God mission. It is possible…

Resenting God because it looks like everyone else but you is living in the reality of their prayers will not make God’s time come faster in your life. What resentment does on the long run is it blurs your perspective. It makes you believe a lie. Chances are, you might have ingested a definition of…

3 People Lessons God Taught Me in 2021: i. Opinion Management Opinion Management means I have the capacity to control my perception and response to issues that directly concern me, issues that indirectly concern me and issues that do not concern me. Weighing in on every issue tabled before me is not a good use…

I have had a particular iPhone for about 3 years now and I am reluctant to give it out even after getting a new one recently. It holds so many memories that are dear to my heart. Today for instance, I looked through some pictures from about 5 years ago. I was fixated on four…