How do you respond to a comment that puts you in comparison to someone else and in that comparison you are the star?
Can we call that a compliment?
I know so so and so that are workaholics, you take life slowly and calmly, and that is great.
Your hair/voice is beautiful than hers

Is a compliment a compliment when it stems from comparison and what do you do when the object of the comparison is right there with you?
There is this silence and awkwardness that suddenly comes up.

What do you do to deflect the awkwardness?
Pretend you didn’t notice and move on even though you notice a shift in the other person’s demeanor?
How do you receive compliments like this?