Social Media Hacks and Etiquettes for Millennials

Use the same profile picture and bio across all your platforms. It validates the credibility of your digital presence. Do not use a raunchy picture as a profile picture. Similarly, ensure there is an offline consistence with your online profile summary. Your bio should describe who you are and not who you were. We all evolve,…

I Finally Met Chimamanda and Here is What I Learnt

If you are an ardent reader of my blog, then you most likely know that I love Chimamanda. I am thoroughly smitten by the quality of her femininity. I met Chimamanda the other day and guys it was surreal. The meeting which was a night of conversations bordering on Feminism, Femininity and generally issues that affect…

Millenials, Our Parents Are Using Us To Fight Their Battles

Our parents get into battles they cannot finish and then enlist us to complete it for them. So at 50,  it is no longer about being married to the best man, driving the classiest cars and living in the choicest, areas. It is now, “My daughter is doing better than yours, I told you.” “My…

Unbecoming

I adjusted the collars of my pride, straightened the wrinkles on my values; I took my diginity out on a stroll and reminded her that we never loose.

Come In For Breakfast

I ditched assertiveness a couple of times in the past year. I just wanted to intentionally experience what it feels like to be without a voice. I really wanted to understand what it feels like to be walked over, taken for granted, to be on the lower rung of the ladder in terms of economic…

Dear Diary: People.

There are times you see someone put on a certain clothe and within seconds you can tell this is original. There are other times you have to move close to really see if the clothe is original and at other times you need to touch to check if it is original. Life has taught me…

Ode To The Woman I Used To Be..

I took a mental stroll today. It was a shallow attempt at decluttering and shutting down the open tabs in my brain. If you are introverted and you have an hyperactive mind you will get this struggle. While strolling, I stumbled on fragments and crumbles of who I used to be and it just made…

Dear Diary: Being…

I am currently pruning my becoming list for the next 3 years with a major emphasis on the next 13 months of my life. I am adding on new things and letting go of  so many others. As I adult, I realize my wants have changed. I no longer  want what I was taught to…

Fears.

I am intrigued and terrified by the spotlight. I don’t want to be out there. I don’t want the spot, the light and any other thing that will put me out there. I just want to be in a little corner, stay put, do all I am asked to and die. Crazy Life Ambition. Even…

Dear Diary: Highlight Reel.

I have my moments. Moments where I doubt myself and my abilities. That I blog everyday doesn’t mean I write everyday. It just seems so. Most times, I decide to write, I do not want to write, but I have to. Laziness and I are in a love-hate relationship. Some days inspiration hits me and…