Come In For Breakfast

I ditched assertiveness a couple of times in the past year. I just wanted to intentionally experience what it feels like to be without a voice. I really wanted to understand what it feels like to be walked over, taken for granted, to be on the lower rung of the ladder in terms of economic…

Sobriety

Sobriety is a place. It is a place you grow into where you know that explanations can no longer run this show called life. You know that you no longer need to  explain yourself everytime in  all circles; so you are fine with certain conclusions being reached about you. You are calm, unbothered, untouched, unfettered….

A Nigerian Definition of Success

The condition of spending emotions and money you do not have in order to appear happy and rich. Getting married at/before 25 as a woman. Having at least two houses/cars. Having a job, a side hustle and a backup plan in case both fails Having a gram life. The Nigerian Success is incomplete without the…

People

There are times you see someone put on a certain clothe and within seconds you can tell this is original. There are other times you have to move close to really see if the clothe is original and at other times you need to touch to check if it is original. Life has taught me…