I ditched assertiveness a couple of times in the past year. I just wanted to intentionally experience what it feels like to be without a voice. I really wanted to understand what it feels like to be walked over, taken for granted, to be on the lower rung of the ladder in terms of economic…
Category: life
Sobriety
Sobriety is a place. It is a place you grow into where you know that explanations can no longer run this show called life. You know that you no longer need to explain yourself everytime in all circles; so you are fine with certain conclusions being reached about you. You are calm, unbothered, untouched, unfettered….
A Nigerian Definition of Success
The condition of spending emotions and money you do not have in order to appear happy and rich. Getting married at/before 25 as a woman. Having at least two houses/cars. Having a job, a side hustle and a backup plan in case both fails Having a gram life. The Nigerian Success is incomplete without the…
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