On Resentment

Resenting God because it looks like everyone else but you is living in the reality of their prayers will not make God’s time come faster in your life. What resentment does on the long run is it blurs your perspective. It makes you believe a lie. Chances are, you might have ingested a definition of…

People Lessons in 2021

3 People Lessons God Taught Me in 2021: i. Opinion Management Opinion Management means I have the capacity to control my perception and response to issues that directly concern me, issues that indirectly concern me and issues that do not concern me. Weighing in on every issue tabled before me is not a good use…

Don’t Stray

I have had a particular iPhone for about 3 years now and I am reluctant to give it out even after getting a new one recently. It holds so many memories that are dear to my heart. Today for instance, I looked through some pictures from about 5 years ago. I was fixated on four…

Grief Changed Me

I watched Teni, sit for an interview with Chude Jideonwo the other day. During the interview, she spoke about how she dealt with loss and teared up at some point. Watching her carefully, I felt a familiar feeling — Grief. Grieving is hard and it doesn’t have an automatic expiry date. The paranoia, the anxiety, the…