Moral Fatigue

The terms and conditions that comes with being a good girl  is stifling me. I need air. I took the reins of my life off expectations and definitions and steered it in a direction that makes me breathe more calmly. The fruit of that transition is: I no longer crave to be and do things…

Growth

I don’t have to love you to glean wisdom from you. I do not even have to like you to learn from you. Willingness to learn in place, zeal and determination on board and I am good to go. The feelings can come later and that is if they ever come at all. At times,…

You Need A Soul Fast

I heard that gossip especially between women is normal. I also heard it is impossible for girl-girl friendships not to come with the gossip bondage. I have maintained a friendship with my girlfriend for over a year and we don’t do gossip. It is a deliberate principle we put in place. We talk about literally…

Humility

Be careful how you treat the authorities in your life when your life begins to look like what you dreamed of. Be careful how you treat your parents, mentors and teachers when you get to a point you tag ‘Spiritual/Economic/Social/Physical maturity’. Be careful how you treat their words, their counsel, their instructions. Remember they staked…