Fears

I am intrigued and terrified by the spotlight. I don’t want to be out there. I don’t want the spot, the light and any other thing that will put me out there. I just want to be in a little corner, stay put, do all I am asked to and die. Crazy Life Ambition. Even…

On Boundaries and Principles

Be careful with letting everyone in on your life. Don’t allow just anything or anyone around you. I understand you are a people lover but you need to learn to define relationships. It is called principles. Divide your relationships based on value and relevance. What relevance do I bring to the fore when I am…

Of Unintentional Mentoring and Being an Unintentional Mentor

If only your mentors knew you were using their life to chart a new course. If only they knew that you observe them keenly. If only they knew that something you cannot define or explain draws you to them. If only they knew you were studying them. If only they knew that they are life…

Stripped

Imagine being stripped off everything in life… No job. No business. No marriage. No kids. No friends. Your beauty waned. Your curves disappeared. Zero validation. Zero applause. Zero accolades. If you were stripped off all these and in general everything that made you comfortable, gave you a form of reputation, prestige, esteem… Will you still…