You Listened To Her, Now You Are Screwed

In recent times, I have had cause to leaf through the pages of my old journals. Expectedly, this process sends me into deep thinking mode. The scribbles in those journals represents a lot. For the sake of this post though, I will be making a temporary call on ‘aborted pursuits’ because I listened to ‘her’….


I work with a very popular media house in Nigeria and because it is largely a creative space, self-expression is highly encouraged. I realize however that there is an unspoken normal at work. It is very subtle, you probably wouldn’t even notice it if your are not observant because it is barbed. It is a…