When I Eventually Meet Chimamanda…

When I eventually meet Chimamanda, some six questions I could ask: 1. Greatest defining moment of your life? 2. Do your friends chose you or do you chose them and if you do, what factors (apart from being a lover of books) do you consider before asking for their hand in friendship? 3. If feminism…

Writing Anxiety and Likeability.

There is an anxiety that crops up when you write and it is especially amplified when  you realize that your writings are beginning to garner wide readership and attract some spectrum of people. This anxiety sets in gradually, it starts from the mind. You notice that some people are now following your blog, and you…

Life Lessons From Serving 3.

Unity and purpose is very key. A united mind and a united view of the purpose of the leader is so important. As a team member, I realize strife becomes a thing when unity and purpose has been tampered with. When one team member starts esteeming her contributions towards execution as the backbone upon which…

More on What I Learnt in my Twenty-Second Year.

Crowd mentality is rife in this part of the world and most go after the safety that comes with the familiar. Doing the unfamiliar and owning it rather brazenly is strange and quite a lot of people are uncomfortable with it. Mental toughness is key in towing the line of the ‘unpopular’ and ‘unconventional’. Putting my…