Nothing to Prove

Having  nothing to prove doesn’t mean you are nonchalant about how people perceive you. Having nothing to prove means you accept yourself so much, you are fine with people seeing you in any other way different from who you are. When people misunderstand you, it no longer becomes an offense. You are fine with it….

How to Guard Against Writing Anxiety and Likeability

This is a sequel to my last post: Writing Anxiety and Likeability. If you haven’t read it, please do. It will provide context and a sort of perspective for this post. Here are some tips to help you guard against writing anxiety and likeability 1. Locate your writing voiceWhen you read Chimamanda Ngozi-Adichie’s writings, what…

Writing Anxiety and Likeability

I love that this blog means different things at different times and yet is one thing but encompasses a whole lot. I love that it is a recycle bin or better still a reservoir. A place where I off load my thoughts so I can breathe more calmly and be somewhat mentally light. I love…

Musings on Choices, Maturity and Freedom

Maturity shows in the way you respond to and handle situations. Maturity has kinds. The maturity needed to handle differing situation varies from time to time. For instance, in some situations, assertiveness is maturity and in some other situations, you understand that to be heard, you need to be quiet. Being quiet at that time…