Don’t Judge Her

Watch that girl that has a compulsive need to be seen and a come back for everything. Her presence is a continuous reminder that life is indeed littered with the ugly and the ugly comes at times with the prettiest of faces. You clearly cannot stand her and everything she stands for. You loathe her guts…

Don’t Keep Quiet

There are some things you should not keep quiet about. Mediocrity is one. Abuse is another. Don’t keep quiet about things of this sort. Speak up.

Peer Pressure

Peer pressure doesn’t have an age limit. It’s the reason why a 75 year old man will ‘turn up for the boys’ in different hues of legal tenders but has pending responsibilities and hungry mouths to feed. The way life is structured, peer pressure never ceases. Instead, you are expected to outgrow pressure and peers….


Once I find that I have to keep vouching for my intentions and explaining my actions over and over and over and over again, I know it is time to declutter. Once I have to rehearse our conversations and anticipate your responses in order to have my counter response ready before that soiree or slumber…