Nothing to Prove

Having  nothing to prove doesn’t mean you are nonchalant about how people perceive you. Having nothing to prove means you accept yourself so much, you are fine with people seeing you in any other way different from who you are. When people misunderstand you, it no longer becomes an offense. You are fine with it….

Musings on Choices, Maturity and Freedom

Maturity shows in the way you respond to and handle situations. Maturity has kinds. The maturity needed to handle differing situation varies from time to time. For instance, in some situations, assertiveness is maturity and in some other situations, you understand that to be heard, you need to be quiet. Being quiet at that time…

On Introspection and Becoming

You interact with people everyday, the stranger you greet on the street out of social etiquette, the gate man at work who is old enough to father and mother you, the receptionist who barely acknowledges your presence, the colleague who is as much friend as she is a snitch. With every interaction did you ask…

On Beauty and Stereotypes

In life, there are some places you go to where your beauty can be a slight disadvantage. The people you need to promote you into another level in that environment are partly used to seeing beautiful women with little to offer, so when you come on board, there is a default hostility awaiting you. In…