Musings on Maritals

Before you proceed on your marital journey, have regular conversations with your partner on expectations. Harmonize your expectations of what marriage is,  what marriage should be and what your marriage will be. Harmonize your expectations of who a husband, father and lover should be with your partner. Harmonize your expectations of who a wife, mother…

Sex

As with most things in life, sex comes with expectations. You go into sex with an expectation of how it should be, how you should feel and all other stuff in between. And then you get disappointed.┬áThe problem wasn’t sex, the problem was your expectations. Your expectations disappointed you. A lot of what people call…

20 Lessons from Sarah Jakes Roberts: Lost and Found

In case you have never heard of Sarah Jakes Roberts, she is mega preacher Bishop Jakes second daughter and fourth child.I heard of her for the first time from my mentor. She had written this blog post and added a line from Sarah’s Empty Handed.Destiny doesn’t just separate you, it isolates you… I didn’t quite…