The People Bondage

Why do you keep doing this to yourself? Why do you keep tucking ‘you’ in and wearing a ‘you’ that is far from who you are? Who sold the lie to you that you need to impress to be cool? Who told you being ‘cool’ is the ‘thing’? So people are attracted to who they…

Opinions

You are entitled to rights. You have a right to think. You have a right to come into your own and own your thoughts. You have a right to have opinions. You have a right to choose to air your opinions. You do not have a right to give your opinions when it is not solicited….

Familiarity

Too much proximity ruins relationships. Whenever you find that you are beginning to lose sight of the value of a relationship, or you are beginning to take a relationship for granted, especially one that has the propensity to move your life forward (mentoring, fathering) step back a bit. Step back from the relationship for a…

Musings on Choices, Maturity and Freedom

Maturity shows in the way you respond to and handle situations. Maturity has kinds. The maturity needed to handle differing situation varies from time to time. For instance, in some situations, assertiveness is maturity and in some other situations, you understand that to be heard, you need to be quiet. Being quiet at that time…