Decluterring

Once I find that I have to keep vouching for my intentions and explaining my actions over and over and over and over again, I know it is time to declutter. Once I have to rehearse our conversations and anticipate your responses in order to have my counter response ready before that soiree or slumber…

Fidelity- A DEEfinition

Fidelity in a relationship is not just about not having sexual intercourse with someone else because you do not want to hurt your partner. Fidelity is way more than that. Sex is just one of the things our relationship needs protection from, not all. Our relationship needs protection from fear, doubt, pride, ego, expectations. Fidelity…

What Meagan Good Taught Me About Christianity

Meagan Good will not make a poster image for Christianity in some circles. Why? The outward expression of her Christianity doesn’t fall within the balance of spirituality that a lot of Christians are accustomed to because to be Christian is to be a certain way and this being is reflective in how we look and…

Familiarity

Too much proximity ruins relationships. Whenever you find that you are beginning to lose sight of the value of a relationship, or you are beginning to take a relationship for granted, especially one that has the propensity to move your life forward (mentoring, fathering) step back a bit. Step back from the relationship for a…